1）Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
1）如果世界上任何人可供選擇，你想邀請誰共進晚餐？
2）Would you like to be famous? In what way?
2）你想出名嗎？用什么方式？
3）Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
3）打電話之前，你會不會排練你要說什么？為什么？
4）What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
4）對你來說什么會構成“完美”的一天？
5）When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
5）你最后一次對自己唱歌是什么時候？對別人唱歌呢？
6、If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
6）如果你能活到90歲，并在你生命的最后60年保持30歲的心靈或身體，你想要哪一個？
7）Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
7）對于你會怎么死你有沒有秘密的預感？
8）Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
8）舉出你和你的伴侶似乎有共同點的三件事。
9）For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
9）對于你生活中你最感恩的是什么？
10）If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
10）如果你能改變你被養(yǎng)大的方式，你希望改變什么？
11）Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
11）花四分鐘，盡可能詳細地告訴你的伴侶你一生的故事。
12）If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
12）如果你明天一覺醒來能夠擁有任何一種品質或能力，你希望是什么？
Set II
13）If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
13）如果一個水晶球可以告訴你關于你自己、你的生活、未來或任何其他事實的真相，你想知道什么？
14）Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
14）你有長久以來夢想去做的事情嗎？你為什么沒有做？
15）What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
15）你生命中最偉大的成就是什么？
16）What do you value most in a friendship?
16）你在友誼中最重視什么？
17）What is your most treasured memory?
17）你最珍貴的記憶是什么？
18）What is your most terrible memory?
18）你最可怕的記憶是什么？
19）If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
19）如果你知道在一年內(nèi)你會突然死亡，你會改變你現(xiàn)在生活的方式嗎？為什么？
20）What does friendship mean to you?
20）友誼對你意味著什么？
21）What roles do love and affection play in your life?
21）愛和情感在你的生活中扮演什么角色？
22）Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
22）交替分享你認為伴侶身上具備的積極特征。分享五個。
23）How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
23）你的家庭有多親密和溫暖？你覺得你的童年比大多數(shù)人更快樂嗎？
24）How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
24）你覺得你和媽媽的關系如何？
Set III
25）Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … ”
25）每人準確地用“我們”造三句話。例如，“我們都在這個房間感覺...”
26）Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … ”
26）完成這句話：“我希望我有人和我分享...”
27）If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
27）如果你要和你的伴侶成為親密的朋友，請分享他或她需要知道的重要的事情。
28）Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
28）告訴你的伴侶你喜歡他們什么；這一次非常誠實，說你可能不會對你剛遇到的人說的話。
29）Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
29）與你的伴侶分享你生活中的一個尷尬時刻。
30）When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
30）你最近一次什么時候在另一個人面前哭泣？一個人哭是什么時候？
31）Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
31）告訴你的伴侶一些你已經(jīng)喜歡他們的地方。
32）What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
32）什么事是太嚴重而不能開玩笑的事（如果有的話）？
33）If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
33）如果你今天晚上沒有機會與任何人交流就要死了，你最后悔沒有告訴某人什么？你為什么沒有告訴他們？
34）Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
34）你的房子，包含你擁有的一切，著火了。保護好你的親人和寵物后，你有時間沖回去安全地救出最后一樣東西。它會是什么？為什么？
35）Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
35）在你家所有人中，誰的死亡會讓你最感到不安？為什么？
36）Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
36）分享一個私人的問題，并詢問您的伴侶會如何處理它。另外，請你的伴侶向你反映你對你所選擇的問題看起來有何感覺。
